Like the majority of INFPs i understand, my relationships are derived from developing connections that are deep. And because deep connections remember to develop, I’ve just had a couple of serious relationships that are romantic. They most likely went on only a little longer than they need to have, but this permitted me time to mirror and think (we don’t know if I’ve ever gone one second without showing and thinking!).

Now, after 2 yrs to be solitary, we constantly waver between thoughts of “I understand precisely what makes me personally pleased in a relationship and I also may be patient” and “i’ll be alone forever (sigh).” Every one of my (few) friends are hitched, and we usually glance at their relationships, racking your brains on whatever they did differently and exactly why I’m not coupled up like these are generally. (more…)